| Location | Hull East Yorkshire |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Undisclosed |
| Date of Birth | 16/09/2007 |
| Date of Death | 16/09/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,172 since 21/12/2007 |
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Jayden Stanley Coulson
16 September 2007
Born Sleeping
(Mummy) Petra ( Daddy) John
(Brother) Thomas
(Brother)T.J
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Our Story Of Jayden Stanley
Where Do I start I guess when we found out that my Partner (Petra) was pregnant Wonderful we thought
a new Brother / Sister for our two Sons Thomas aged 13 and T.J aged 5 we where so happy and
delighted.
Petra Had her first Scan which we have and there you can see this beautiful little baby all was fine
then Petra went for the next scan I cannot remember if it was a 16week scan or not but all I know is
that we had to pay for the scan picture which we still have not received. It was then that the
person who did the scan took us in a quiet side room and told us that she was not happy with what
she had seen on the scan and she then got a consultant to come and see what she could make of the
scan. She did countless scans of our Son Jayden Stanley she Told us that Jayden had a Hole in the
lower half of his spine and that part of his brain was protruding out of the base of his skull and
that Jayden was losing valuable brain fluid all the time. The consultant told us that she was not
happy at what she had seen and was booking a MM R Scan at The Royal Hallamsham Hospital In Sheffield
after having the MM R Scan The Specialist told us that Jayden had already Suffered severe brain
damage and that he had around two inches of his lower spine missing. She then told us that we should
consider a Termination as Jayden's condition was so severe that he would probably not survive full
term. even if he did survive he would have been ( Please Forgive Me When I Say This but Jayden would
have been a Cabbage) . Me And His Mum Petra Stayed Up all night Talking And Crying We Where Both
Broken Hearted We Had to Make a Descion Should we Terminate (Which we do not believe in )Or Not we
had to look at The whole picture what would be best for Jayden Who would look after him as he would
have had to have around the clock care and who would Look after him Should something Happen to us
and that it would not be fair to our other Sons who would miss out on our attention. So we decided
after long days and countless hours of talking That it would be the best thing for Jayden's Sake.
Myself and Petra Got an Appointment To Go into Hospital Where Petra would have to be induced into
giving birth to our much loved Son Jayden Petra was in labor for nearly 18 hours she told me that
she could still feel Jayden moving inside her . The Midwife who was present must have been an Angel
She was so attentive to Petra and myself that she stayed we us all the way through Petra was in so
much pain She had gas and air which did not work Then They Gave her Morphine That did not work they
then advised her to have an epidural which would numb her in the lower part of her spine and that
she would not feel a thing. All I could do at the time was to mop her brow and try to comfort her .
At one point I thought I was Going to Loose Her as Well . Then Jayden was Born Sleeping on the 16th
September 2007 at 1.44pm He weighed in exactly 1lb he looked so much like his 5 year old Brother T.J
when he was born . We had Jayden Blessed in Hospital We had Jayden Cremated along with the Teddy
that we had bought for him. He is now in Heaven with His Granddad And Nana Resting in Eternal
Peace.That Is Jaydens Story Leaving A Broken Hearted Mummy And Daddy and Two Brothers Thomas And T.J
Behind.
Even though you are no longer here with us Jayden and you collected your angels wings early you are
always in our hearts and minds love you always and forever Son.
I don't Know What else to say now I'll Sign off for now and dry my tears.
John and Petra
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A Birthday In Heaven - Author Unknown
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xxx
Special Angel Day - by Carmelle Gross
We do not need a special day
To bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake
We know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache
As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
Your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we love you still.
There will always be a heartache,
And often a silent tear.
But always a precious memory
Of the days when you were here.
If tears would make a staircase,
And heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven
And bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts;
And there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives
Until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
Little Brother - by by Christie Wildman
You have this little Brother,
He loves you very much,
But you’ll never get to see him,
Or feel his gentle touch.
He had to go away you see,
Through God’s garden gates.
Though he longs to meet you,
Heaven’s where he waits.
You have this little Brother,
He’s sending you his love,
Although he longs to be with you,
He watches from above.
He grew his Angel wings you see,
Though none of us were ready,
On one of heavens clouds he sleeps,
Cuddling his teddy.
You have this little Brother,
He’d love to come and play.
But for all eternity,
In the sky is where he’ll stay.
God had a plan you see,
He needs him by his side,
He’s shown him how to use his wings,
Through heavens clouds he glides.
You have this little Brother,
And though you are apart,
The love that you feel for him,
Will remain ever in your heart.
Happy Birthday
Hey Jayden . Happy Birthday
Help your parents get through this tough day. Its hard for them to get through days like this without you. I hope you have fun celibrating with the other angels on the clouds today. Say hello to J for me he is your age and he would love to join in the fun. Sending you floaty hugs little man xxx
21ST MAY 2009
WISH UPON A STAR
If I could wish upon a star..
I would wish to see my loved one from afar
For I see my loved one twinkling at night
And oh it's such a beautiful sight.
The star it glows with love and care
And no other star in the sky can compare
You shine down on your family at night with love
You were a beautiful gift to me from heaven above.
Your beauty glows and shines so bright
And you keep shining until morning light
You are shining now in heaven above
Please my little star keep shining down on me..
With lots of love, Jude. x
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copyright* Jackie Thomas 2009.
Angel Jayden.xx
God bless you little man, you look so peaceful in your picture - be happy in heaven & play in the clouds. May god give your mummy & daddy the strength & love to get through their grief, as i know how heartbreaking this feels. Sleep tight sweetheart, im sending you my love & kisses & my prayers to mummy & daddy.xxx
AN ANGEL NEVER DIES
Don't let them say I wasn't born
That something stopped my heart,
I felt each tender squeeze you gave
I've loved you from the start.
Although my body you can't hold
It doesn't mean I'm gone,
This world was worthy, not of me
God chose that I move on.
I know the pain that drowns your soul
What you are forced to face.
You have my word, I'll fill your arms
Someday we will embrace.
You'll hear that it was "meant to be
God doesn't make mistakes,"
But that won't soften your worst blow
Or make your heart not ache.
There will come a time, I promise you
When you will hold my hand,
Stroke my face and kiss my lips
And then you'll understand.
Although I've never breathed your air
Or gazed into your eyes,
That doesn't mean I never "was"
An angel never dies.
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The Place Where Little Babies Go.
Fluffy clouds of pink and blue
Where fairytales and dreams come true,
Where teddy bears put on a show
In the place where little babies go.
Where a choir of angels sing on high
A peaceful, Soothing lullaby,
And their feathers flutter down like snow
In the place where little babies go.
Where the sun is shining everyday
In a heavenly sky that’s never grey,
Where love will bloom and always grow
In the place where little babies go.
Where bells will ring and hearts they soar
When a mum and dad walk through its door,
Then only tears of joy will flow
In the place where little babies go.
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